Listening and responding
Listen and respond appropriately to adults and peers; follow agreed-upon rules for discussion such as listening to others and taking turns speaking
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Teaching Table · Reviewed guide
Set out your lesson
“Listening means eyes and ears on the speaker, a quiet mouth, and waiting for your turn. A good response answers what was actually said. At home we pass a turn object instead of a whole-class hand-raise routine.”
Bring to the table
- Two large toys or drawings
- A small “my turn” card or object to pass
Full guide and materials
- Two large toys or drawings
- A small “my turn” card or object to pass
- Step 1. Hold the turn object and speak for about 15–20 seconds about toy A: name it and one fact, such as “This bear is slow and likes berries.”
- Step 2. Your child waits, then receives the turn object only after you finish.
- Step 3. Ask one check question: “What does the bear like?” Expect a relevant answer.
- Step 4. Child takes a short turn about toy B while you listen. You then paraphrase or ask one check question.
- Step 5. Repeat once more, praising waiting, looking, and relevant answers—not long speeches.
- Quick check. Success means your child waits until the turn object is passed, then answers one question with a detail from what you said, and later gives you one understandable turn about the second toy.
Worked example. Adult: “The bear likes berries.” Question: “What does the bear like?” Child: “Berries.” That response shows listening.
Optional challenge. Tell a two-step mini story about both toys. Ask a question that needs both details, such as who found the berries and who was too fast.
What to notice. Save a parent note describing the wait-for-turn behavior and quoting the relevant response.
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Listening means eyes and ears on the speaker, a quiet mouth, and waiting for your turn. A good response answers what was actually said. At home we pass a turn object instead of a whole-class hand-raise routine.
Spend about 10 minutes taking short turns talking about two toys and answering one check question after each turn.
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Check understanding
- Demonstrate attentive listening by making eye contact and responding relevantly
- Follow classroom discussion rules (e.g. raise hand, wait for turn)
- Show understanding of what was said by paraphrasing or responding appropriately
“When your child is in a group conversation at school or at the dinner table, do they listen while others are talking and wait for their turn before speaking?”
Curriculum record
- Type
- Procedural
- Subject
- English
- Domain
- Speaking & Listening
- Age range
- Ages 4–11
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