Sympathy Versus Empathy
Distinguish sympathy ('I feel sorry for you') from empathy ('I understand what you're experiencing'); develop active listening skills: reflecting, paraphrasing, asking open questions, resisting the urge to problem-solve too quickly; understand empathic curiosity as genuine interest in another person's inner world; practise being present for someone in distress without trying to fix or minimise their experience; understand vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue, and how empathetic people can protect their own wellbeing while staying present for others
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Practise curious listening while respecting another person’s wishes and one’s own limits.
Practise curious listening while respecting another person’s wishes and one’s own limits.
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“When a friend is going through something really difficult, can your child describe what makes a listener genuinely helpful — and explain the difference between empathy and sympathy, using an example of something that sounds supportive but actually isn't?”
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- Type
- Procedural
- Subject
- Personal & Social Development
- Domain
- Empathy & Social Awareness
- Age range
- Ages 12–13